May 19, 2013

A Young Mother’s Guide to Good Budgeting

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One of the most important things in a young family’s comfortable lifestyle is a good budget. That’s right, a good budget.

Before you scream in horror, please realize that a budget is actually a good thing.

Why? Because a budget is simply a plan that contains your family’s monthly income and your planned out-go. When one can control their budget, they can control their life.

Unfortunately many people think that a budget means that fun times are no longer allowed. True, a budget might indicate that “fun times” have become more important than commitments—why the car payment is always late or why the family credit is questionable.

But if you are honest, you will admit that control of these issues is an incredibly freeing experience. So, to gain the financial upper hand, a good budget should be at the top your list.

First: Income

Make sure that all income is recorded; this should include regular paychecks from any regular work, as well as a small side-business or interest from investments, etc.

Second: Vitals

This part contains items absolutely necessary for the welfare of your family, such as house payments, utilities and food. In tough times, this area is the one to consider for a possible payday loan from a viable company, such as Plain Green Loans.

Third: Commitments

This includes any other important payments, like that car.

Fourth: Savings

That’s right, savings. Make it a habit to sock 10% away, no matter what. Open an interest-bearing account and put 10% of any income into that savings account. This is non-negotiable.

Fourth: Fun Expenditures

Now budget in the movie fun, Mom and Dad’s night out, etc.

Do this faithfully and you will realize that not only are bills paid on time but “fun times” actually increase.

And that’s called smart.

The Negatives of Social Media – Keeping Etiquette Alive

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How has social media websites changed your life? For some individuals, it has unfortunately produced some unwanted negatives. Indeed, there are some trends that should not be followed – pun intended.

In many ways, social media has done a lot of good. On Facebook and Twitter, for instance, you can connect with friends, family, and even businesses and famous people that you admire. You can feel free to share your thoughts, pictures, and catch up with friends. It provides a great complement to real life social interaction.

However, it is with that term – “complement” – that begins to touch upon some negatives. For some people, it is relied upon too heavily.  Yes, it is easier to connect with others by sending a quick “hello,” but that should not replace other ways of connecting. This is where one major weakness is found with using social media.

If you’ve ever been plastered with “Happy Birthday” messages on your Facebook page, and with few to none telephone calls or well-thought out messages or points of contact, you’ve likely experienced this phenomenon. Perhaps this shouldn’t be the norm, though it is quite common to see. It might be a good idea to look for other ways to express gratitude, or whatever a situation calls for instead of relying too heavily on social media.

Social media has a great number of advantages. However, it must not replace forms of social etiquette that allow the feelings to be truly felt. It is much better as a complement to “normal” elements of social means.

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